Junior’s mother asks him for a promise after Mary’s death.
“Promise me you’ll never drink.” (Alexie 208)Read in the chapter
Week 14 · A related practice question
What does Junior’s mother’s reaction reveal about fear during grief?
Junior’s mother reacts to Mary’s death with fear for the child she can still reach, but that fear does not make every action helpful. His mother, a parent overwhelmed by grief, demands a promise from Junior: “Promise me you’ll never drink” (Alexie 208). This says that she wants him to avoid the danger she connects with losing Mary. It shows a frightened wish for a different destiny for her son. She cannot undo one loss, so she tries to prevent another. However, she also hits him before holding on to him. Junior explains, “Well, my mother quit slapping me, thank God, but she held on to me for hours” (Alexie 208). This says that the hitting ends and is followed by a long embrace. It shows how fear can appear through conflicting actions, including an action that hurts someone who is already vulnerable. The embrace, a long attempt to keep her son close, makes her need for connection visible. The scene invites a rhetorical question: does being frightened make it acceptable to hurt the person you love? Understanding her fear does not excuse the hitting. Because Junior needs care too, we should recognize both the mother’s pain and the effect of her behavior on him.
Use these four words for this model exercise. The review words are drawn from earlier lessons; they are not additional Words of the Day assigned this week. For your weekly Aim Response, use the words your teacher assigns.
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Where this model’s evidence came from
Reader note 2: Mom focuses on alcohol when she fears losing Junior too. Her demand helps explain what the family sees as dangerous.
Junior describes his mother holding him after she stops hitting him.
“Well, my mother quit slapping me, thank God, but she held on to me for hours.” (Alexie 208)Read in the chapter
Reader note 6: The word “but” turns from hitting to prolonged holding. Those actions suggest different responses to fear; neither action tells us that Junior caused Mary’s death.
Notice how the model develops the observation into an explanation. Borrow that writing move; choose evidence for your own question.
See how the argument builds
- Answer the question
Fear for another child drives conflicting responses.
- Explain the first quote
Mom wants Junior to avoid a danger linked with Mary’s death.
- Explain the second quote
Hitting gives way to holding him close.
- Distinguish feeling and action
Fear helps explain behavior but does not make harm acceptable.
- Build the ending
Care must consider Junior’s needs as well as his mother’s grief.
Try one writing move
___ feels ___ because ___, but that feeling does not ___.
Fill each blank with a person, action, or reason that fits the sentence. This is a thinking frame, not a vocabulary matching exercise.
Compare with an example
Junior’s mother feels frightened because she has lost Mary, but that feeling does not make hitting Junior acceptable.